One of the trickier aspects of planning a wedding reception is deciding on the seating arrangement. There may be some people you know you can't seat together, or there may be some people you know want to all sit together, but simply will not fit in your intended tables.

      When planning the seating arrangement, always plan for the most important tables first. The bride and groom will usually sit together at the main table, which is also usually the largest table. Often, they are joined by the entourage, the best man, maid of honor, other groomsmen, and bridesmaids.

      Next to this main table are the parents tables. Some brides and grooms choose to seat both sets of parents together, others choose to seat the bride's parents with the bride's siblings and close family or close family friends, and do the same for the grooms parents. After the more important people have been seated in tables situated near the main table, you can begin arranging the other seating arrangements.

      Usually, it is a good idea to seat family with family and friends with friends. This will save your guests from sitting down with people they aren't familiar with, and may not be comfortable with. For example, your sister or brother is bringing one or two friends, consider that it may be best to seat them at the same table with some of your friends or maybe some of your cousins instead of seating them with your parents, who may want to sit with more closely related people.

      If there are groups of people that you know would like to be seated all together, but cannot fit in one table, put their tables next to each other. This can help solve the problem. If there are some people who may feel awkward sitting next to each other, let's say a group of teens next to a group of grandparents, be sure to separate their tables. You want your guests to have a good time, and not leave early!

      Finally, when planning a wedding reception seating arrangement, remember to put in a singles table and a table for children. The table for children is usually best situated near the washroom (as children tend to get dirty during a party) and off to one side, preferably near where their parents are sitting. The singles table, on the other hand, is for guests who mentioned in the RSVP card that they will be coming alone. Put the singles table near the center of the room, where they can really join in on the activities. This will make them feel like they are a part of the entire group, and not feel too bad about not having a date.

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